meal planning 101


one thing i believe we all have control over is how we spend our money. how we spend our money, for the most part, can allow us or prevent us from living our precious lives to the fullest.  another thing i believe in is food. good food shared with others. often times, when the topic of good food is brought up, people find it hard to believe that the nutritious meal in front of them is affordable. but i promise you, it can be.

a lot of you have asked how i provide good food for my family at such an inexpensive cost. simply put- i plan. although i am not an expert by any means, i want to share my form of meal planning with you. let's begin.

1. set a budget.

our family spends $75 a week. when we first began meal planning a little over three years ago, we spent a bit more. over the years, though, we have found ways to cut costs. i know our budget will increase as we add little ones, but for now we spend at most $300 a month. 

i want to mention a few disclaimers before you get the idea that we are starving- we don't eat all organic. we purchase as many organic fruits & vegetables as we can, but at this time our budget doesn't allow for us to eat exclusively organic. additionally, we have chickens who provide for our daily eggs. lastly, we farm & grow a large amount of our own food. this saves us huge amounts of money. we have a freezer full of beef & pork from the farm & we grow vegetables year 'round in our backyard garden.

2. assess what you do have.

before i ever begin to plan out our meals, i thoroughly search our fridge, pantry and cupboards for foods that might make the perfect ingredients for a healthy meal. those two carrots? perfect for a vegetable soup. the extra black beans from this week? delicious on a tortilla with salsa for lunch. i also like to know if we have items, like milk, that we need to use before it expires. i hate to waste food so this speaks to my frugal spirit.

3. check your schedule

my sweetie & i always discuss our schedule before i ever begin planning our meals. if i know we have a commitment on a particular evening or that day looks to be extra busy, i will plan an easy meal such as frozen soup or prepare something in the crock pot the morning of. 

additionally, there's nothing more frustrating than not communicating with your family and realizing you are hosting a guest that evening or expected to bring a dish to an event after you do your grocery shopping for the week. the extra planning doesn't seem as worthwhile if you're visiting the grocery store once again.

4. plan your menu

using as much of what you have already on hand in your fridge & pantry, plan your menu. some plan for the entire month, but i like the creative rhythm of planning our menus every week. i usually plan my meals on sunday & grocery shop before work on monday. 

when i am planning, i gather my favorite cookbooks (here, here and here), my meal plan notepad, my grocery list, and my family planner. i map out our week, including evening events, and write them on my meal plan. i then choose seasonal, healthy recipes that create a balanced meal with few ingredients. i  write those recipes on my meal plan along with their source & page number. i also write notes such as "thaw soup" or "put beans in crock pot morning of" on each corresponding day. these simple reminders prevent me from forgetting a key ingredient in our meal before the flurry of dinner preparations begin.

just a note- i only plan dinner on our meal plan & always make extra as leftovers for lunch.

5. leave prepared

there's nothing i dislike more than planning my menu & grocery shopping the same day. it's exhausting & leaves me cranky. like i said before, i like to plan my menu slowly on sunday & leave for the grocery store early on monday morning before work, refreshed & fully nourished from breakfast. 

i always take reusable bags. my local food co-op gives 5 cents for every reusable bag used & it's nice to know i'm not filling a landfill with plastic bags. you can pick up a reusable bag at most thrift shops & second-hand stores. 

i also always bring my grocery list & calculator. turn around right away & go back home if you forget those two items. if you forget these two items, it will prevent you from getting everything you need & keeping you on budget. in my case, i use my phone as a calculator. every time i add something to my cart, i take a moment to punch it into my calculator. i keep a running total as i cross each item off the list. this keeps me from splurging on delicious coconut ice cream if i don't have it in the budget. it's a nice reward to know i have an extra $4 in my budget once my grocery list is complete & everything is added up to grab that sweet treat. you know exactly how to spend your money when you keep a watchful eye on where it's going. 


i thought it might be of some interest to you to know what i purchase each week with $75 & a sample of my menu plan. the above photo shows the groceries i purchased the week of valentine's day (not shown are bulk chia seeds). i spent $50 on this load with $25 to spare for our special valentine's day meal & wine.

here is my menu plan for this week:

monday- (make garbanzo beans for lunches) brussels sprouts with dried cranberries & goat cheese over brown rice (pinterest)
tuesday- small group / veggie burgers and roasted sweet potato bites
wednesday- white bean and tomato mushroom soup (whole living) with mini ciabatta rolls
thursday- (thaw chili) long work day for natalie / frozen chili with homemade cornbread and salad
friday & saturday- natalie is out of town / luke's choice
sunday- leftover sunday!


here are a few affordable, whole foods recipes i really love: black bean sweet potato burritos, white bean & mushroom stew, and buttermilk biscuits.

& finally- some tips to answer any questions you might have:


- always write down foods as you run out of them. we keep a market list on our fridge that we add to daily. this saves me a lot of time when i am planning & trying to remember everything that we might have run out of the week before.


 

- shop seasonally & preserve. we just ran out of our black cherries, peaches & strawberries from this summer's bounty. preserving food, whether it be canning, freezing or drying, saves our family so much money. i usually spend a large part of my summer preserving fresh foods for the winter. i not only enjoy it, but i also find satisfaction in pulling out that bag of frozen green peppers from the freezer for a stew & opening up that delicious jar of sweet applesauce for breakfast. make a mental note of the foods your family enjoys most & keep an eye out for those items at your local farmers' market. they are usually the cheapest & most delicious at the peak of their season. buy more than you usually would & preserve the extra.


- never forget the power of leftovers as another meal. we often thaw soup, stews & chili for a quick meal. i also like to use leftovers from the previous night's dinner for lunches & dinner the next day. i will use extra black beans from one night's taco salad for tomorrow night's vegetable fajitas. tonight's roasted sweet potatoes are a great addition to tomorrow's soup. whole ingredients are affordable & very versatile. 


- avoid pre-packaged food. you have the time, i promise. you will save so much money purchasing a large container of plain yogurt & filling small jars for lunches & quick snacks. top with frozen fruit & you have a delicious treat. i never, ever buy individual packages of pretzels, raisins, etc. i always buy the large package & quickly toss whatever snack food in a bag or to-go container before heading out the door.



i hope this was helpful in easing the stress of balancing health & our budgets. please don't hesitate to ask any questions you might have. i am not an expert, but i truly love sharing what i do know with you.

also, if you have any great ideas for meal planning, i would love to hear them! there's always more room for improvement!
love,
natalie

spray paint changed my life



i often obsess over my home, believing what i have just simply won't do. with a shoestring budget & limited options, i search high & low at thrift shops, flea markets & antique malls for that perfect thing that will settle my nesting soul. that is, until spray paint came into my life. one can & four bucks later, i have pretty orange kitchen table chairs. spray paint, you have blown my diy mind.


a good friend found these two lonely chairs on the side of the road & sold them to me for dirt cheap at her yard sale just a few months ago. they sat at my kitchen table for far too long until last weekend when it was absolutely freezing cold & i decided it was the perfect time to complete an outside diy project.


i purchased a can of spray paint in "cinnamon" orange & started spraying. i sprayed until i couldn't feel my fingers from the frigid wind. two coats later, these babies were stylin'. 

now let me just tell you, i have a lot of friends who spray paint furniture, but i just wasn't a believer. it left drippy marks on the sides & looked uneven when i tried to spray paint anything. i finally googled this & figured out that i was spraying too close to the piece & in too thick of a layer. this time i sanded my piece just a bit & took it slow, spraying two thin layers instead of a thick, uneven layer like before. perfection. i'm a spray paint addict.

but of course, i wonder what life would look like if i didn't have a constant list of diy home projects. i hung that chalkboard because that blank wall was driving me nuts. my eyes started to get twitchy as i imagined all of the possibilities. then it hit me.


paper bag flowers. a brilliant idea by martha & executed so perfectly by ashley. for just $1.50, i'd say this is the perfect decor for the baby shower i am hosting next month & maybe forever. i'm craving spring & these paper flowers make me smile.


now onto the next project... thanks for reading, friends!
love,
natalie

bicycles & knitted hats



he's home. (!!!! sflasklfjaslkf!!!!)


when i started this blog, we were dating. we lived across town from one another, just a short bike ride away. we married in college & lived in a tiny attic apartment. we held hands while bicycling to our classes. we moved a couple of years later to begin our careers & stretch ourselves much more than we ever thought we could. he drove 45 minutes to work & i hated most every day of my job. we grew tired of the difficulty & lack of community so we moved upstate. he stayed on the farm during the week & i found my dream job. he drove two hours home on the weekends, listening to podcasts & npr. we had community, but we didn't share a home.

he's finally home & i cannot tell you how good it all feels. this morning he opened up the garage, dusted off his bicycle & rode to work. with his helmet on.

before he left, i asked if he would pose in his new knitted hat i made him for valentine's day & he agreed. that's what us blogging wives do, right? then he quickly put on his helmet & left just in time for his first day.


here's a bit about the hat. the purl bee is such a dream & i found the pattern here. i was looking for a fairly simple hat with detail. i used one wooly blend skein of lamb's pride yarn in the most beautiful yellowish green.  i plan to cast on one for myself in a robin's egg blue color. the hat knitting obsession continues. 


wishing you a wonderful week of knitting, bicycles & love
love,
natalie

wine, chocolate & crafts







when you're husband's out of town (for the last night of his old job ever !!!) & it's valentine's day, the only real solution is to invite your girlfriends over for a little par-tay.

we ate food, talked about food, drank wine, savored homemade truffles & painted little pots for succulents. much better than store-bought flowers, in my opinion.

& yes, i ate chocolate. i don't want to talk about it.

wishing you a wonderful weekend full of love & all the good stuff!

love,
natalie

happy valentine's day!


happy valentine's day to you, my sweet readers! wishing you love, laughter & heart-shaped tights! 

love,
natalie

a peek at our bedroom



friends, our bedroom is a work-in-progress. i struggle with bedroom decor. our bedroom always looks a little half-empty because we honestly don't do much living in here aside from sleeping & getting dressed. i wasn't too crazy about that half-empty look because it's the first thing we see when we wake up. so, i started collecting meaningful art & searching for fun projects. 

disclaimer: this is the only wall i am showing you today, hence the title "peek at our bedroom." if you look at our dresser & turn to the left, you will see a bed on the floor with handmade quilts from my grandmother (that i dearly love) & an assortment of pillows from several different attempts at pretty bedding. also not shown are bare windows that need curtains & a chest that needs a serious paint job.


& this is what came out of my months of collecting & searching. i found this beautiful, worn & dirty, vintage dresser at a garage sale for $75. i painted the drawers yellow & the outside white. with a can of gold spray paint, the knobs got a little upgrade, too.


i was thrilled when i came across ashley's helpful tutorial for a chicken-wire wall. with luke's help, it took about two hours to spray paint the wire & staple it on. i absolutely love the results. i hang various items with clothespins, including bits of happy art & my collection of necklaces.


i also use this mannequin as a way to display some of my favorite necklaces. my dear friend gave me this mannequin & i absolutely love it. the honey wood cutout necklace is made by my friend, kara. psst...check out her etsy shop with her talented friend, rachel.


with a mix of family photos, wedding photos, happy bits of art, a few memorable souvenirs from past vacations & cheery bunting, i do believe my work is finished... in this corner of the room.

i think it's time to begin dreaming up that quilt for our bed. 
love,
natalie

finding joy & a change of attitude













this weekend was relaxing & exactly what i hope a weekend to be. luke & i made a sheet fort above our bed for our saturday date night. we ordered in pizza & drank beer while watching ruby sparks (a great film)! our sunday was full of crafting, tidying up for the week ahead & good times with dear friends & family. i even scored that mirror at the thrift along with a few spring dresses. perfect.

even though everything seemed good, i had a hard time this weekend. i was feeling very uncomfortable due to my gluten & dairy intolerance (i.e. pizza on saturday!), but overall i was suffering from a good case of "grumpy pants." i needed a reset button for my stinky attitude. so, on sunday morning, i tried my best to be thankful & smile. i wasn't necessarily successful, but i am slowly realizing as i get older (& will continue to realize, i'm sure) that i have much more control over my attitude & joy than maybe i previously thought. oh, it seems so small, but it can have a great impact on our days.

how do you take control of your joy & attitude? i would love to hear your ideas!

love,
natalie

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